Is the media and Hollywood helping or hurting survivors of domestic violence?

In the United States, more than 12 million men and women become victims of domestic violence each year. Every minute, roughly 20 Americans are victimized at the hands of an intimate partner, with women having a higher likelihood of such abuse, with those ages 18–34 years being at the highest risk of victimization. Moreover, it is estimated that approximately one in four women and one in seven men experience violence at the hands of an intimate partner at some point in their lifetime

In movies and tv shows, the portrayal of domestic violence may have enabled and allowed the acceptance of domestic violence to occur. The media, with its vast reach and influence, holds a mirror to societal values, beliefs, and norms. Historically, it was influenced heavily by present attitudes, perceptions, and stories. In the past, this influence arguably negatively impacted victims of domestic violence by humorizing and even glamorizing abusive behavior.

Author and survivor Alle C. Hall shares, “In the past, domestic violence and has been portrayed lightly, even as a punchline. I’m thinking of the verbal abuse level by Ralph toward Alice on that massive hit for the times. Now considered a classic: ‘The Honeymooner.’ Then there was the clenched his and his catchphrase: “Pow! Right in the kisser.” Hilarious. Yet the audience laughed!”

Media consumption has undoubtedly evolved, with society’s gradual awakening and increased awareness. While some older media representations missed the mark, they serve as a reflection of how far society has come in its understanding and tolerance of such behaviors. Misrepresentations, regrettable as they are, shed light on the then-prevailing societal beliefs and can be used as benchmarks for progress. Now, however, Hollywood and the media are showing domestic violence in a more accurate way, and in a way that centers around the survivor’s story.

“More recently, shows and movies are refocusing to center around the survivor’s story. Shows like “Maid,” “Big Little Lies,” and “Brothers” all show more nuanced and complex stories that feature or center around domestic violence, survivors and the effects of violence. For better (for society) or worse (for my own novel), until the Me,Too movent took place, I had consistent response from agents saying, ‘There are too many stories about incest’,” Alle C. Hall explains.

The transformation hasn’t been accidental. Advocacy groups, survivors, and allies have long campaigned for more accurate portrayals in the media, understanding its influence on public perception. And as society pushes for a world free of abuse, the media serves as a beacon, highlighting the issues, challenges, and triumphs in this battle.

In a rapidly changing world where access to information has never been easier, the role of media in educating and informing its audience about real-world issues is crucial. The diversified narrative ensures a comprehensive understanding of the issue. The significance of such portrayals cannot be understated.

Why is it vital for the media and Hollywood to portray more authentic and accurate portrayals of domestic violence? “The more these stories are told, the easier it becomes for society to recognize violence in their communities and in their own homes. Many victims of domestic violence may not even realize they are being abused, but may see it in others, which will in turn make it easier to be seen in their own home. The media has a lot of influence, and by engaging in and promoting more stories like these, more people can see, understand and get out of abusive situations,” says Hall.

During Domestic Violence Awareness Month, it’s imperative to address the intricate relationship between media consumption and domestic violence. Media, as a reflection and shaper of societal beliefs, holds significant sway in how we perceive, understand, and act upon domestic violence. The narratives presented in television shows, movies, and literature can either perpetuate harmful stereotypes or foster empathy and understanding. By discussing and critically examining these narratives, we ensure that media serves as a powerful ally in spreading awareness, dispelling myths, and fostering a culture where survivors are heard and understood. Recognizing the role of media consumption in shaping public perception is not just a responsibility—it’s an essential step towards a more informed and compassionate society.

Now available as an audiobook, Alle C. Hall’s award-winning novel, “As Far As You Can Go Before You Have To Come Back,” is a story about a survivor of abuse who discovers the path to healing after she escapes her abusive family.